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Henry_Chinaski
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Sep 04, 2003 - 10:19 PM |
 
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Can speak for myself only and the answer is NO! But every man has his fantasies. Let\'s not generalize though: every men is a whole new insane and sick mind of its own.
Woul say depends on appearance, maybe age, and lots of other factors...
However, if you look from another angle: maybe they ask for sex directly because perhaps this strategy works and there are plenty of girls that are \'easy\'. Sometimes their proposals scare people (like you), sometimes it just works swiftly....
rgds,
Chinaski.
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vancouverrain
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Sep 04, 2003 - 10:46 PM |
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sometimes the attitude girls here spoiled those foreigners. it all depends on how a girl appeared to them, if she looked and behaved cheap, of course, she give the opportunity for them to take advantage of you. unfortunately, some girls here do. that\'s why we always heard about gold/green card diggers. or some r just being so vainish and be with a blonde/blue eyed boy can make them feel proud.
not all men are like that, but first of all, we all need to respect themselves and be sure what we are looking for.
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polo
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Sep 04, 2003 - 11:25 PM |
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The internet and chat media are interesting in that it allows people to say things that they would never have to guts to say to someone face to face. This is both an advantage and a disadvantage depending on your perspective. You have to be careful on the internet as it is used by all sorts of dubious people but it can also lower barriers and allow you to explore things that you have only been curious about.
I think that the female and male approach to sex is different in some ways and similar in some ways. And attitudes are often incompatible to mutually satisfactory sexual experiences. Women like commitment in a lot of cases and men crave variety and novelty. women are tactile and verbal while men tend to be visual. If people were smarter, they would learn from each other instead of pushing away things that they find initially uncomfortable. I love exploring sensuality and sexuality but there are still a lot of people uncomfortable with the concept that sex can be more than a reproductive process. In the end use your own best judgement and learn to enjoy what is a very pleasurable part of life. For me it is the equivalent of play as a child. |
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Henry_Chinaski
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Sep 04, 2003 - 11:43 PM |
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Further to Polo\'s sharp post: take care if someone asks if you have long nails and beautiful hands.
rgds.
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Henry_Chinaski
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Rebekah
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Sep 05, 2003 - 08:52 AM |
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| sometimes the attitude girls here spoiled those foreigners. it all depends on how a girl appeared to them, if she looked and behaved cheap, of course, she give the opportunity for them to take advantage of you. |
What do you mean by behaving cheap? can you give me some examples?  |
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polo
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Sep 05, 2003 - 09:47 AM |
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Acting cheap would be something like wearing a lot of cheap perfume or the type of clothes that reveal a lot of your body. Perhaps dancing on top of a bar and taking off your top and bra, perhaps sitting in a mini skirt with no panties on and showing everyone that you have no panties on. definitely not something to copy
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Rebekah
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Sep 05, 2003 - 10:11 AM |
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Acting cheap would be something like wearing a lot of cheap perfume or the type of clothes that reveal a lot of your body.
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how about wearing bikini? |
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polo
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Sep 05, 2003 - 11:09 AM |
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well i suppose if you were downtown and stood in front of some men and slowly took off the top, that might be considered to be cheap. Pulling on your nipples or slowly sliding your thumb in and out of your mouth usually signals the \"I\'m available for sex\" message as well. I would suggest none of these, however. |
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quasi
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Sep 05, 2003 - 07:55 PM |
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hey daisy guess u r on ly 17 right hmm i got similar experience as u i will not go as far as to say all men r like that it depend on lots of things hmm i will just advise that do not meet them hastily after u r sure u know him or her then meet ok? good luck |
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FooJay
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Sep 05, 2003 - 08:14 PM |
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hmm we got similar experience kool to know u anyway be urself be4 a foreinger
btw i am 21 too major in economcs in shanghai maritime university
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FooJay
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Sep 05, 2003 - 08:38 PM |
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hemm?? graudate? guess a associated degree of bachelor right 专科 ? |
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FooJay
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lei_in_china_2003
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Sep 14, 2003 - 10:20 PM |
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I appreciate the honesty tho. At least they tell you what they want exacly rather than playing games and getting people hurt in the end. I guess when no emotions are envolved its easy to get out and not get hurt. Well most foreigners are only in China for a while, and most of them just wanna have a fling, which is understandable. |
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joburgent25shanghai
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Sep 15, 2003 - 11:55 AM |
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That's Rigtht! All chinese liers, in that sense.
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| I appreciate the honesty tho. At least they tell you what they want exacly rather than playing games and getting people hurt in the end. I guess when no emotions are envolved its easy to get out and not get hurt. Well most foreigners are only in China for a while, and most of them just wanna have a fling, which is understandable. |
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water_lily_qin
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Sep 19, 2003 - 01:34 AM |
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hiiiiiiiiii dearrrrrrr daisy, i bet u r dasiy shen namely duckling, right???????? if i am correct. then both u and and quasi(21f) and me r always appeared in yahoo chat room the same time, in fact u and quasi already meet in chat room. but lucky, both u r my very good friends. cheers. hey dear dasiy, u ask an interesting question here. well. how did u know here?
hope to hear from u soon.
cheers
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Sep 19, 2003 - 02:18 PM |
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let me answer for her she got the website add through live it up shanghai a radio program am 990 from 5 to 6 hey u can try it bet u will love it |
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senorjay
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Sep 21, 2003 - 11:49 PM |
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Daisy do you not feel excited by the site of a naked male body? Even though most of the men who expose themselves on the net are gross the naked male body is still something worth looking at isn't it? |
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queenmab
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Sep 22, 2003 - 10:12 PM |
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i dont like looking at the male naked body...
id much rather look at boobs than a hairy penis |
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FooJay
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Sep 23, 2003 - 09:45 AM |
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this topic seems can attract lots of ppl |
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fukuman
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Sep 24, 2003 - 03:19 PM |
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If any young attractive Asian females are interested in casual sex please reply |
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queenmab
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wait... fukuman... you have STI's and still you want to go ahead and spread your infections around to pretty young asian females?!?!?
i say, first get the friggin infections cured all up, then go to the store and buy some condoms... after youv done all that, then maybe you can think about having sex. |
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marcus_guan
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julian
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Oct 26, 2003 - 07:54 AM |
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HE,HE,AUTHOR,I STILL DON'T KNOW UR GENDER,IF U ARE A GIRL,WHY DON'T U GIVE THEM A TRY,I MEAN SEX IS SO GREAT AND IT SHOULD DEPEND ON LOVE ONLY.BUT WARN U SAFE SEX ONLY. |
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TrevorNL
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Oct 26, 2003 - 10:27 AM |
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I guess I'll get a bit of bad press for this - but thats life.
I am a BIG fan of GIVING oral sex to girls. I can live without intercourse if I can just taste the sweet juices of a woman having a climax on my tongue! So - if anyone out there wants the oral experience, with no need to go any further - send me an email or leave me a message! |
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